I started this blog at the urging of friends and family in April 2010 when my husband and I were given an opportunity to relocate in Maryland for one year. We have now returned home to Arizona and continue to walk by faith as we watch God orchestrate the adventures in our lives. I invite you to share in our adventures as we watch God at work!

We live by faith, not by sight. 2 Corinthians 5:7



Saturday, April 23

looking backwards and forwards

It had been my intention when I began this blog a year ago to just document our year in Maryland and then call it quits. However, as is so often the case, I have since discovered some things about myself and about life in general that have made me rethink that idea.

In writing this blog and through a couple of other projects I'm working on, I have discovered that I actually don't mind like really enjoy writing. As someone who didn't like English class much in high school or college, this came as a surprise to me. Of course, it shouldn't have since other interests have changed over the years- for example, I also really like history now and I just tolerated it in school. I embrace the challenge of making it interesting or entertaining to the reader but more than that, the effort of articulating a thought or idea without hand gestures or made-up words ("thingamajig" is a favorite as I try to point to or gesture what I'm talking about...) invigorates me.

The thought processes involved in writing have brought me to a more intimate relationship with Christ. It is not an accident or coincidence that Scripture comes to mind as I write this blog. Or that in the hindsight of writing about an experience I can more clearly see God working in and through that experience.

Obviously, it is true that simply writing a personal journal would achieve both personal enjoyment and a more intimate relationship with Christ... and I have tried to keep a journal numerous times. After a few weeks I forget, get busy or don't think I have anything to say (which is really an excuse for being lazy). I need the accountability of a blog... and the possibility that someone might be waiting to read the next blog post. I personally follow several blogs and feel a little disappointed when I have to wait "too long" to read, as Paul Harvey used to say, "the rest of the story."

I have realized that you don't have to be on a permanent vacation or have young children to see and do interesting or fun things. I had become too much of a "home body" after our children grew up and left home. It was just easier to stay home than it was to find things to see and do and go do them. After a year of being on the go, interacting with new people and experiencing new cultures, foods and events all within 25 miles of our home in Maryland, I am convinced that there are equally unique and fun things to do right here in the Valley of the Sun. So... my ongoing mission is "to explore strange new worlds, to seek out new life (people) and new civilizations (places), to boldly go where no man (or at least me) has gone before!"

Friday, April 15

home again, home again, jiggity jig

Dorothy, in The Wizard of Oz, said, "There's no place like home!" as she clicked her ruby slippers together. While I don't have ruby slippers, I do agree with her statement. We finally arrived back in Arizona and I haven't stopped smiling! It's not that I didn't love our time on the East Coast, it's just that it's great to come home.

We have a group of friends affectionately known as MR KLUD (Mike, Richard, Kristin, Laurie, Ursi and Doug) who "coerced" Janne and Adam (who were staying in our house) into letting them "decorate" for our homecoming. They did an amazing job!

welcome home-yard collage
We thought the pink flamingo was an especially nice touch!

welcome home-door collage
The front entry way was decked out in a tropical theme...

food baskets
... which continued into the house! The flower lights were awesome! Cheese, salami, crackers, mini bottles of wine, fruit, nuts and chocolate- what more could you need? 

flowers
Maybe a beautiful bouquet of flowers? 

While we were gone, we relied on the kindness and generosity of our neighbors to keep an eye on things, especially during the times no one was staying at our house. They made sure newspapers and flyers were disposed of quickly. They cleaned out the pool when there was a storm. They got our mail. They did a million little (and not so little!) things. And they, too, welcomed us home.

W-flowers
The Whites have been our neighbors for almost 24 years. We have shared many good times- and a few sad times- together. And Claudia knows my fondness for fresh flowers =)

Another neighbor, the Taxiers, brought us a homemade lemon meringue pie. I wish I could say I took a picture of it- but Vicki is a superb pie-maker and it was cut and eaten before we even thought of getting the camera. Our other neighbors have stopped to chat or waved as they drive by.  Janne and Adam moved out of our house and into their own house a few days before we got home- but they made sure we had some essential groceries like milk, cereal and a frozen pizza. 

I am reminded of Proverbs 17:17 which says, "A friend loves at all times." We have certainly felt loved and taken care of by our friends and family. And there really is no place like home!

boxes collage
The very next day FedEx delivered the 25 (yeah, we left with 13...) boxes we had shipped and it was back to the real world.

Wednesday, April 13

A Whirlwind Week at Walt Disney World

We spent a week at Disney World with Jacob, Jenne and the kids on our way back to Arizona. Yeah, I know- Orlando is not "on the way" to Arizona from Maryland- unless you go the long way! We had an amazing and fun time... there is nothing like the magic of Disney seen through the eyes of children!

We explored 4 parks: Epcot, Hollywood Studios, Animal Kingdom and my favorite, Magic Kingdom. Jenne is the ultimate Disney vacation planner and she wisely scheduled "down" days in between the park days so we could sleep in and get to bed "early" as well as spend time walking around a very nice Super Target and Downtown Disney.

Epcot is my second favorite Disney World park. I love that one can go around the world in just a day... and, not having been to Europe (yet!),  I almost feel like I'm really there. Jenne wisely did not schedule lunch that day and we just snacked our way around the globe... fabulous fish 'n chips in the United Kingdom... a tummy-tickling assortment of pastries and crepes in France... gooey caramel that made my teeth hurt just looking at it in Germany... and frozen bananas  while we watched Illuminations, the fireworks show at the lagoon. We finally had dinner in Mexico- the best Mexican food we'd had on the East Coast!

Epcot
The International Flower and Garden Festival was going on while we were there- beautiful flower beds,  potted plants and amazing topiaries were EVERYWHERE!

Everyone was looking forward to being at the Magic Kingdom on our last day at Disney World. Jenne and Richard had strategized the "best" (meaning being able to ride the most rides the most number of times) approach to the park and decided we needed to be there at least an hour before the park opened. No kidding- we were cars number 3 and 4 in the parking lot!

Magic Kingdom entrance
Have you EVER seen the entrance to the park so empty? Yeah, me neither!

We had a great time at the Magic Kingdom.  Thanks to an app Jenne downloaded to her phone, we were able to know wait times without actually going to the ride which enabled us to strategically use Fast Passes allowing us to ride lots of rides... lots of times! Ben and Lexie were not tall enough for some of the rides but were good sports about waiting for those who could- fortunately, they enjoy "people-watching" and "performing"!

Watching the Disney Electrical Parade whenever it's available has been a tradition of ours since before we were married. Our kids grew up watching it... and then recreating it when we got home using multiple flashlights while they hummed the song and danced around the house. We were excited to see the parade again... this time with our grandkids.

Electrical Parade
The parade was at 11 pm... and everyone was awake for it!

Richard, Jenne, Jacob, Christopher and Nick went to ride a couple of rides one last time after the parade while I stayed with the stroller crew, who had by now finally fallen asleep. After the last ride on Splash Mountain at midnight, we all headed to Main Street for ice cream. 

Castle at Night
As we sat on the curb eating our ice cream, we noticed the crowds had dissipated... and we had a clear view of Cinderella's Castle!

At about 1 am, our visit to the Magic Kingdom had come to an end and we walked out the gate to the parking lot. 

Last ones out!
Yep... there was only one other car left in the parking lot besides our two. We had opened the park... and closed the park! I think we definitely got our money's worth this trip!

The Disney parks are fun- but what I enjoyed most was watching our grandkids. They are young enough to believe that they are really driving the cars on Autopia... to believe it's really Cinderella... to believe that Mickey-shaped confetti is pixie dust. To believe...

Christopher
At the Princess Breakfast, Cinderella gave each child a "Wishing Star" ("When you wish upon a star, makes no difference who you are..." from Pinocchio). Christopher said he was keeping his forever.

Nick
Nick knew he was making great music banging a spoon on a washboard at the Hoop De Doo Review. It was more fun than strawberry shortcake!

Ben & Mickey
Ben has loved Mickey Mouse for a long time. The look on his face is one of absolute delight at holding Mickey's hands and having his undivided attention. I couldn't hear their conversation but Ben told me it was a secret...

Lexie
Lexie was kissed by both Ariel and Snow White at the Princess Breakfast... how much more loved can you get? Oh- and she told me they were real princesses... really!

the fam with Mickey
I think I speak for everyone when I say that we all had a most magical time at Disney World... mostly because we were together... and because of the Mouse!

Saturday, April 2

savannah, georgia

My favorite movie of all time is Gone With the Wind. I saw it for the first time with my grandmother when I was about twelve and as I sat in the dark movie theater watching the dramatic lives of Scarlet and Melanie unfold, I became intrigued with life in the South... the mansions and plantations, the long dresses with hoop skirts, the swooning, the appalling idea of slavery. And for quite some time, Savannah, Georgia is a place I wanted to visit- not because it is the setting of the story (which it isn't), but because it sounds so "Southern!" We stopped in Savannah after we left Maryland, on our way back to Arizona via Orlando, Florida.

Nothing says "the South" more than magnolia trees and azaleas. Although the magnolia trees had not yet blossomed, we did arrive just in time for the start of azalea season and it was breath-taking.  Their vibrant colors and sweet aroma were everywhere.

Azaleas in Savannah collage
Azalea shrubs are everywhere... along city streets, in parks, private gardens. 

Our hotel was situated on the bank of the Savannah River and we walked along the river walk several times a day. I was surprised to learn that thanks to a series of locks and dams, large ocean-going ships traversed the Savannah River past the city of Savannah as far as Augusta, Georgia until the mid-twentieth century. Yeah, it's that big!

bridge collage
We enjoyed watching the sunset on the river and then the dancing lights as it became darker. Talmadge Memorial Bridge, a double suspension bridge, is in the background.

Sailing ships carried cobblestones as ballast which they then dumped along the shoreline so they could take on cargo, usually cotton. The city soon realized they had an inexpensive, fire-proof building material being deposited on their doorstep and began replacing sand and gravel roads with cobblestones as well as building fences and even buildings out of it. 

cobblestone street
Cobblestone streets are hard to walk on even with "sensible" shoes- I was amazed to see several women RUNNING down the street in their HIGH HEELS! The women were long gone by the time I got my camera out so you just get the street...

A statue of Florence Martus (1868-1943), a well-known local woman with an intriguing story, stands just off River Street. She lived with her brother, a lighthouse keeper, in a remote cottage by the river. From an early age she welcomed passing ships with a wave of her handkerchief and soon sailors began returning her greeting by waving or with a blast of the ship's horn. She and her collie continued greeting ships, often using lanterns at night, for 44 years welcoming over 50,000 ships. Legend and speculation says that she fell in love with a sailor and was waiting for his return. However, the factual story about why she started and continued waving to the ships remains a mystery. 

Waving Girl
The Waving Girl Statue was designed and sculpted by Felix De Weldon who also sculpted the United States Marine Corps Memorial (the Iwo Jima Memorial). 

One of the many things I enjoy about traveling is trying the local cuisine. We noticed a strong Cajun influence (perhaps because of their close proximity to Louisiana?) to many of the menus with jambalya and beignets being fairly common. But the culinary delight we tried that just screams "Southern!" was fried green tomatoes... in a word, scrumptious!

fried green tomatoes
Fried green tomatoes are NOT made from a green variety of tomato but are unripe red tomatoes. They are firm and sweet and are usually paired with balsamic vinegar creating a party in your mouth!

A trip to Savannah would not be complete, at least to this Girl Scout of eighteen years, without a trip to the home of Juliette Gordon Low, the founder of Girl Scouts in the United States in 1912. While I don't agree with the direction Girl Scouts USA has recently chosen, I did find it quite interesting to get a glimpse into the life of its founder, a woman I greatly respect and admire.

JG Low collage
Despite great personal adversity, Juliette Low championed "girl's rights." 

One of my favorite scenes in Gone With the Wind is where Scarlett is sitting on the veranda of a neighbor's plantation with a bevy of beaus while the Spanish moss-covered trees in the background gently sway in the breeze. Living in the desert my whole life (remember I was twelve at the time...) I had never seen Spanish moss and thought it looked rather like tinsel on a Christmas tree- in other words, artificial. In reality, it is quite beautiful. What I learned in Savannah is that it is neither Spanish, nor moss but a flowering plant in the angiosperm family and grows on large trees like oaks and cypress without damaging them.

Spanish Moss
I could almost see Scarlett strolling down the lane on the arm of her "beau du jour!" 

We enjoyed the Southern gentility and beauty in Savannah, the "Hostess City of the South." It was the perfect place to relax after the busyness of preparing to move.

Friday, April 1

thanksgiving and anticipation...

This week has been an emotional roller-coaster as we packed and got ready to leave.  Happiness, sadness, excitement and disappointment were all pushing and shoving to be queen of the hill until they were replaced with thanksgiving and anticipation. I am thankful for the incredible opportunities we've had this year. The Lord has blessed us in many ways as we've watched Him at work in our lives. And as we move back to Arizona  I am now eagerly anticipating some very special favorite things...

1. stunning Arizona sunsets...

sunset
The only thing more beautiful than an Arizona sunset is perhaps an Arizona sunrise! 

2. hummingbirds...

Hummer
I love watching the aerial acrobatics of these tiny, territorial birds. When I let their feeders run dry, they squeak at me to let me know! Who knew I'd miss that?!?!

3. friends...
No photos for this one... but someday I would love to get ALL our friends in one place and take a picture! They say absence makes the heart grow fonder. I don't think that is always true- but this year away from you all has certainly made me appreciate each of you more. I cannot wait to give each one of you a hug... SOON!

4. mountains...

mountains
What the east coast considers mountains would barely be considered "hills" in the west. I miss the jaggedness, the brown dirt... and yes, the dry creek beds!

5. cacti and desert flowers...

desert
I've been told the beauty of the desert is an acquired taste. Or maybe you just have to be a desert rat. Whatever the case, I love the contrasts and simplicity that make the desert so beautiful.

6. monsoon storms...

monsoon storm
From watching the wall of dust (haboob) roll in to the pounding rain, thunder and lightning and even the occasional power outage, I love monsoon storms!! Of course, the next day when I'm fishing patio furniture out of the pool is a different story altogether!

7. Chandler Bible Church...
Again, no photos for this one but I certainly plan to rectify that when we get back! We have so missed the community and fellowship of our church- lots of churches teach the Bible, but what makes ours special to us is the people and the blessing they are to us. See ya'll soon!!

8. my bathtub...

tub time
No, I'm not kidding... and yes, we had a bathtub in Maryland. I love everything about my bathtub- the slope of the back, the way the water stays hot (extra insulation... thanks, Lon!), the filtered sunlight from the window, the ledge to put my coffee or iced tea on as well as a book,...

9. morning coffee on my patio...

morning coffee
I enjoy my morning coffee on the patio about 80% of the year. It is where I often read my Bible and meditate on God's Word as I listen to the birds chirping. It is my favorite part of the day!

10. Mexican food...
What can I say? There just isn't good Mexican food east of the Rio Grande. I plan to frequent my favorite Mexican food establishments on a regular basis for awhile. And cook Mexican food with more than two kinds of fresh chilis... and the brands of canned ingredients I like. Yum!!!!

Wednesday, March 30

Hi Ho Cherry-O...

Once upon a time, in the year 1885, an American woman named Eliza Scidmore went to Japan where she fell in love with flowering cherry trees called "Sakuras." She had a grand idea to plant cherry trees along the Potomac River Basin to beautify the capital region.

trees along Potomac

As soon as she returned to Washington, D.C., Eliza talked to the US Army Superintendent of the Office of Public Buildings and Grounds, the man in charge of such things. He didn't think it was a good idea and her request was denied. For the next twenty-four years Eliza Scidmore met with each new superintendent but none of them liked her plan.

tidal basin framed with cherry trees

Meanwhile, in 1906, a botanist and plant explorer as well as US Department of Agriculture official named David Fairchild imported 100 cherry trees, including 25 weeping ones, from Japan. He wanted to study the trees' hardiness and planted them on his property in Maryland.

sparkle blossoms

Dr. Fairchild was so pleased with the cherry trees he planted that just a year later he and some of his friends planned, promoted and planted 300 Oriental cherry trees in his hometown, Chevy Chase, Maryland. And the following year, on Arbor Day (the last Friday in April), Dr. Fairchild gave cherry saplings to schoolchildren from each school in the District of Columbia to be planted in their schoolyards.

weeping cherry trees

He told the schoolchildren it was his desire to transform the Tidal Basin into a "Field of Cherries!" Sound familiar? Well, Eliza Scidmore was Dr. Fairchild's friend and was also there when he presented the saplings to the schoolchildren that Arbor Day. Dr. Fairchild's speech encouraged Eliza to pursue her idea so she decided to raise enough money to donate the cherry trees to the city.

Washington Mon w/cherry trees

Eliza sent the new first lady, Helen Taft, a note explaining her plan. Mrs. Taft knew all about the beauty of "Sakuras" since she had lived in Japan for a while. She thought Eliza's plan was such a good one that she lobbied for the trees herself- and was promised some cherry trees!

Cherry trees along Tidal Basin

At that same time, a Japanese chemist named Dr. Jokichi Takamine was in Washington, D.C. with Mr. Midzuno, the Japanese consul in New York. When Dr. Takamine heard about the Japanese cherry trees that were going to be planted along the Tidal basin, he asked if Mrs. Taft would accept a gift of an additional 2000 trees to fill out the area. Mr. Midzuno also thought it was a grand idea and suggested the trees be given in the name of the City of Tokyo. Together they met with Mrs. Taft and she graciously accepted their gift.

Cherry trees

Several months later the Japanese Embassy told the Department of State that the City of Tokyo promised to donate to the United States 2000 cherry trees to be planted along the Potomac River. The trees finally arrived in Washington, D.C. in January, 1910 after a several month journey from Japan. Unfortunately, when they were inspected by the Department of Agriculture they were found to be infested with insects and nematodes. With a sad heart, President Taft gave the order for the trees to be burned.


cherry blossoms

The Secretary of State apologetically informed the Japanese Ambassador that  the trees had to be burned to protect American growers. When Dr. Takemine heard the distressing news, he once again graciously donated the money for even more trees. These trees were specially grafted and a year later, 3020 trees were shipped from Japan. They arrived in Washington, D.C. in March, 1912.

Jefferson Mem w/cherry trees

On March 27, 1912 Mrs. Taft and the wife of the Japanese Ambassador planted two cherry trees, which are still there, on the northern bank of the Tidal Basin. Afterwards, the first lady gave the Japanese Ambassador's wife a bouquet of American Beauty roses and the ceremony, attended by just a few people, concluded. Fifteen years later, on April 16, 1927 a group of schoolchildren re-enacted the simple ceremony and from that, a District of Columbia celebration grew from a three day event to a two week long festival.

Cherry trees lining Tidal Basin

The cherry tree grove near Tokyo which was the parent stock for the trees sent to the United States were mostly ruined by neglect during World War II and immediately after. Japan requested help to restore the grove in 1952 and the National Park Service sent budwood from descendants of those same trees back to Japan to help restore the famed cherry tree grove. In 1958, the mayor of Yokohama, Japan presented the Japanese Pagoda as a gift to the District of Columbia "to symbolize the spirit of friendship between the United States of America and Japan." That spirit of friendship continues today as the National Cherry Tree Festival began this year with a fund-raiser for the victims of the recent earthquake and tsunami in Japan. 

Pagoda

Eliza Scidmore died in 1928, but not before she saw her grand idea bloom and grow. One million people are expected to stroll among the blossoming cherry trees at the National Cherry Tree Festival this year, the 99th anniversary of that first celebration with Mrs. Taft and the wife of the Japanese Ambassador. 

R&K at Cherry Blossom Fest

Tuesday, March 29

And some not-so-favorite things...

Although the list of things here I won't miss is shorter, I would be remiss in not mentioning them. So, in the interest of full-disclosure, here are a few of my not-so-favorite things...

1. The prolific number of bugs, especially stink bugs...

stink bug
A warm, humid climate + lots of foliage = ideal habitat for insects. I'm sure that's a scientific law- and if not, it should be. There are bugs of every size, color and description here, especially in the summer time. Being somewhat "bugaphobic" I try to avoid them and tell myself that they are food for the beautiful birds I enjoy watching. However, stink bugs are another story- since they were accidentally transported to this continent from China and there are no predators here, they multiply like crazy and stink like crazy if you smash them. BLECH!!!!

2. Traffic, extremely short merge lanes onto highways and narrow streets in downtown areas...

Traffic
While our neighborhood traffic isn't bad, especially during the day when I'm usually out and about, traffic on and around the Washington Beltway (495) is usually bad and often horrendous regardless of the time of day. This photo was taken at about 1:30 in the afternoon... imagine "rush" hour!! Most of the freeways, expressways and parkways use cloverleaf interchanges with very short merge lanes rather than diamond ones with typically longer merge lanes like the ones I'm accustomed to in Arizona. One interchange actually has a yield sign as you come around the curve just before the merge lane. YIKES! Many cities have narrow streets in their downtown areas. Lanes were marked out decades ago when vehicles were typically smaller but now many people have SUV's and trucks making the skinny lanes seem even narrower. In addition, Baltimore has few parking garages/lots so more  people park on the streets. The larger vehicles and increased street parking have made me wonder on more than one occasion if our car could even fit through the space in the lane. Sometimes mere inches separate vehicles. AAAAAACCKKKK!!!!

3. The extreme liberalism, naturalism and relativism, especially in the media...
I realized we were leaving a red state and entering blue territory.  Everyone is entitled to their opinion and I welcome thoughtful, civil debate. What saddens me is how willing people are to let others think for them rather than take the time to educate themselves on a particular issue and think through all the consequences. I have seen variations of "The government knows best..." quoted in the Washington Post several times. There are many examples- but that would be a blog post for another time. SHEESH!


4. Roads with HUGE pot holes...

Pot Holes
A two-diminsional photo doesn't show the depth of the potholes, but trust me, they are DEEP! I will not miss the very rough, uneven roads full of cracks and fissures from the dampness and freezing cold contracting and then expanding the asphalt. While MDOT tries to make repairs when the weather cooperates, there are just too many to fix in a short time. ARRGGHHHH!!!

5. Very dark roads without streetlights...

Have you ever seen a movie where someone dumps a dead body in a dark, wooded area and then kids walking home from school find the body? I always thought that was kind of far-fetched... until coming here where street lights are seldom used. With the densely wooded areas butting up next to roadways, it gets very dark (the reason there is no photo!) and very scary-looking. We have often had to use high-beams in some areas just to see well enough to negotiate the turn and ensure there isn't a deer in our  path. And yes, it's within three or four miles of our apartment and within the city limits! EEEKKKKK!!